I have a beautiful and (mostly) sweet 13 year old girl.
This has caused me no small angst as a parent as I want to protect her from all the crud out there in the world. However, the path I have chosen as a parent has been to prepare her for all the crud out there and (hopefully) empower her to be her own person, to stand up for herself, to hold others to a standard of behavior when they are around her. (I say the path I have chosen because my husband is still very much in the protect her mode.)
The 13 year old boys however kind of freak me out.
I don't know --scratch that, I do know.
BOYS WERE NOT LIKE THIS WHEN I WAS A TEENAGER!! Boys had nowhere near this kind of confidence or game. Do they have YouTube video's that teach them how to woo a girl? I mean, some of the stuff they come up with would work on me. What is up with this?
We had one boy over the summer who was upset because we wouldn't allow her to date. (reasonable, right?!) He tried to get our daughter to sneak behind our back and then when that didn't work he said he would wait for her. A 12 year old boy is going to WAIT until they are 18 or maybe 16 and I'm thinking WHAT?
This other boy build up this girl he liked and kept telling my daughter about her until she realized it was her! Smooth! Very well done.
Watch out girls. That's all I'm saying! Be careful who you give your heart to.